Monday, April 10, 2006

sex and love..

Hello folks...,

Now i have a big confusion regarding this issue of love and sex.I have come across people who are really paranoid with the physical aspects of love. They seem to
perceive the two aspets as two sides of a river. And the wonderful coincidence is that all those people that i have met did not have any amorous affair in their own life. So to them love is pure and platonic, infact this is the mental set up of the female sex.. But is this the truth??

I have the asked the same set of people that if they will have crush for any ugly looking guy? And prompt was their reply...NO!!!..If they are so paranoid with physical aspects of love then why are they not liberal to accept love from an ugly person. Then asked whether whats the reason of choosing a nice looking boy friend, they get confused at this question. Then I do help them with the reason, they all admit that they would fantatise. Here comes the real hypocrisy of these people, because they seem to potray love as a mere platonic affair. Then why fantatisation???

The truth is that we are all the effect of the ORIGINAL SIN and the traits put in us we can not defy under any circumstances. Sex is a basic instinct of all human beings..but the funniest stuff is that we people are ashamed of discussing this aspect, its all hypocrisy.

I have also come to ask all my friends who were in a ny relation for a period over 4-5 months and all of them agreed to having some sort of physical experience with their partner. Actually there are some people too who are having a relation for few years but do not consent to having any physical experience..and thats a real 'BIG' lie..or they really do not love their spouse and indulge in having sex with multiple partners.

To me true love can only come only after two souls amalgamate completely, and physical experience is a way of complete submision of a soul to another. Its a tremendous bond of togetherness. And the truest form of love.

Now see sex is also a stand alone activity apart from a subset of love. But still that i am not concerned about, i am only confined to the domain of "love and sex".
Premarital sex has been under the realms of our society but we defy this truth an try to act decent..All of us have the desire but the element of fear prohibits us from acting being too instinctive..thats why we arehuman beings. But provided with an oppurtunity all will indulge in sexual activity obvioulsy under the assylum of being in love...;-)

Monday, February 20, 2006

Whats the solution???

Imagine yourself clouded by the fog, standing at the edge of the cliff, fearing to take a step, not knowing the fate in the very next second. A gush of wind kissing you as you fight with the destiny, and then when you felt better, suddenly you feel falling deeper and deeper sucked by a vortex of uncertainty. No you have not taken a single step; it’s just the fear that stops you from deciphering the path towards the road away from the edge. You feel better standing there until and unless someone comes and leads you safe back. But if he does not come? Then? Will you wait their blinded all the while…waiting for a miracle to happen…Why not try to take a little bit of risk, each step that you will be taking towards finding the way back will be like a movie played in reverse order. All the frames created while you reached at the point of no return and indecision is to be step by step reversed and placed accordingly. We know that 0+2+2+2=6 again 6-2-2-2=0. Wish life was so easy. But we human beings are neither a movie player nor a computer that we can store the frames and exactly reverse the order of the frame of life. Wish we could have? Sigh!!

Now comes the trivial question, then what is the solution?Please provide your valuable AaKaSh

Thursday, February 16, 2006

A Question???

Hello its a new day and last night I thought of something..Is it possible to love some one else and marry some one else??? And if some one does this then whom is he betraying the most??One's own self??Or the partner??Human capability amazes me a lot...the way people adapt to situations is really a wonder. Infact many people who succumbs to this kind of situation are initially very sceptical and assumes that the marriage will not last. Just for some prosaic social norms and responsibility toward parents one takes this decision. And marriage supposes to be the amalgamation of two hearts specifically chosen by god. But???This but leads to a new path. Infact people who has a broken relationship are the ones who are the most successful in married life. With time they tend to erase the pink memories with the ex-partner, and gradually tend to love their present partner. And yes an intimate physical relation acts like a catalyst to foster this love. These people know that what are the mistakes they did in their previous relationship(s) and do avoid them in their present life..

One thing is true that in the initial phases the spouses will have to adjust with this kinda people.It is a tough call but with time and patience they get the most out of the marriage, in return. So to me I do believe that these people are brave people who have the guts to face life with an attitude. And because they are faithful to themselves and family they took a noble decision. Because a marriage is a very big commitment and it is better to end a patch work relationship and move forward in life and be happy and make people in your vicinity happy ..So chill.

Rasmo riwajo ki jo parwah karte hai,
pyar me wo log gunah karte hai,
ishq wo junun hai jisme diwane,
apni khushi se khud ko tabah karte hai..

Wednesday, February 15, 2006

So Lets Peek into the world Of Mystery..

Defining Love???

To many love is an unusual feeling that creates a butterfly in stomach. And the butterfly slowly turns into a slug. Whatever it might be but it really is a strange feeling to fall in love. And what people do mainly confuse are amongst the three basic things that are infatuation, love and crush. Actually ask any people who is crazy for Miss X or Mr Y, they all will infer to the common answer that they are in love..people seldon admit that they are in a crush or an infatuation...they do once they are half souled(getting out of the illlusion called love), they then admit that they were in a state of infatuation state or had a crush, and its nothing other than a self consolation. So one thing we infered that love is an illusion for some people. Love is polymorphic in nature.An abstract feeling a void experience.

To some love is merely a chemical reaction that takes place in the hypothallamus in our brain. A stimulation of adrelanin that makes a person unrestful. But this is also to some like a practical approach but this is a saying from low self esteem and a pessimistic attitude towards life..I believe..Because love is indeed not so prosaic..Whatever it is??That i do not know..

I will discuss further..and will come to the answer soon and will unravel the mysterious word LOVE...

My Pic Near Menoka Cinema Hall(Kolkata)

What is Love?????

This is a blog where I will place issues on Love and Romance, will try to deciphere this mysterious subject called LOVE...So please be with me and share your views and let us all together make this worl full of love...